Thursday, May 28, 2009

Why is it that....

...everytime I befriend a guy, they end up falling for one of my other friends and I don't end up friends with them anymore?

Seriously!! I've had 3 guy friends now who have liked one of my friends, told ME, and after I hooked them up, they stop talking to me.

Let's get one thing straight: I'm not bitter. I am truly happy for my friends when they find someone they really like. But the selfish part of me would like to keep my friends too, you know? One friend in particular feels uncomfortable when I hang around her boyfriend (who was my friend before they started dating) because she doesn't want to make him feel awkward. HELLO? I was his friend first, I think I could be able to tell for myself whether or not he was uncomfortable or not.

Maybe it's not me at all. Maybe it's the guy. I guess it's just one of those insecurity things lurking its ugly head.

Call it immaturity, call it high school drama, call it whatever you want. Have any one of you guys felt this way before? Leave me a comment with your advice or pent up frustration!

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